Hello everyone, Looong time since last posted. I’ve not finished many items due to working constantly. I LOVE my job. Instead of doing the RICCT like I was contracted for, I’ve now been given Primary 3! I have my very own class! I love it so much. It’s a lot of work, it’s very tiring, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. It’s so much fun. I’ve had one day off so far because it was a snow day. We don’t get snow too often here but when we do it usually stops things for a couple of days. I think, over 70 schools in Dumfriesshire were shut that day. It doesn’t look too much in comparison to some places but it was a lot. We STILL have snow, a week and a bit later. Very slippery and icy on my driveway. My poor little car is still out of action too. We got it fixed which is great, but now the fan belt is playing up. Whenever you drive, it squeals and squeals. VERY embarrassing and very annoying, especially driving through a quiet village at seven thirty in the morning. I have to wait until Wednesday to get it fixed, but that’s ok. The chickens are not enjoying it too much. The first time they saw it they were eating it. It’s made them a bit mad having to stay in their run rather than being outside but they had a run yesterday and this morning so they are not too bad. So, crafty wise, what have I been up to? I’ve been working on this baby blanket for a while. It’s a bit longer now than it is in this photo. I love the colour scheme. I’ve been working on it everytime I watch ‘Broadchurch.’ Anyone watch that? It’s fantastic. Next episode on tomorrow – eeek. Anyone been watching The Great British Sewing Bee by the way? I tried watching it last night but was very distracted to don’t know what it is going on! Will try again tonight. Right, so….I don’t tend to write anything negative on my blog as this should be a happy blog with nice feelings and thoughts. However, I was left disgusted with an incident with a seller I just have to bring it to light. I ordered a loom from a woman on facebook. Most of her customers seemed pretty happy, even if some did have a bit of a wait for items. Now, I had read reviews about this business before she came on this FB page, but I thought, ok, I’ll give someone a chance, it’s the best thing to do. This pin loom was cheap, so thought I would give it a go. This seller is unusal in that she does not expect payment until AFTER you recieve the item. Odd, but ok. I think this is because of what happened before. Now, do you still expect your item to be sent in a timely manner? I did.
I ordered it on the 2nd January. Told it would be posted the next day.
Asked for an update on the 7th January. Oh, it’s been posted that day. Annoyed that was not what I had been told, but ok. I even told her that if I liked them I would order some for my school classes.
A week later. Nothing. I messaged her. No reply
Two days later. Messaged. No reply.
That night I left a message on a public forum we are both on, asking for the tracking number or proof of postage. She demanded I take the post down and refused to answer my questions until I asked her again where it was. Apparently she had been in hospital and had not been able to do anything. And that she didn’t get tracking orders. Uhh, proof of postage is FREE. I’m sorry, but if you have posted this TWICE where was it? She was in hospital two weeks AFTER the order was place.
I had enough and told her not to send it to me as I wanted to cancel it. She told me that when I recieved it, (as she swore she sent it) I was to pay or send it back. I said no problem.
A week later guess what arrived? Now, if it has been the lost parcel fine, I made a mistake, I would apologise, but no. It was sent on the THIRTIETH of January, a MONTH after being ordered. Disgusted was not the word. However, I do not think she would have paid the return postage so I paid what I owed. (Postage was £2,80, but since I had cancelled the postage, I would have expected her to pay it to get her stuff back). When I got it, I sent a message saying ‘Loom recieved and paid for. Thank you.’ She replied, thank you.
So, a few days later I post up a picture of what I had done. Someone immediately commented ‘oh you got it then.’ I replied, ‘Eventually. Wasn’t posted when said. But oh well.’ And then continued to chat to others online.
This person replied, ‘Maybe it was a replacement?’ I ignored it.
So, then this seller comes on and comments under my photo the following – (now, all of these are actual quotes which I cut and pasted. NONE of these are changed in anyway, except names and ‘business’).
Empress27 , how very rude of you . As you know it was a replacement and secondly you had not paid for it up front, exactly the same as all my customers you paid when you received it. How can you moan when you had not parted with any money ???
So, just because I didn’t pay for anything up front meant I was less deserving of an order that I had placed??
Excuse me *************. It was NOT a replacement. I had in fact cancelled my order with you and have the messages to prove it. You said that you had indeed posted it. You had not. My parcel was sent on the 30th January which I can prove as well. Rather than hassle with posting it back, I paid for it. Just because someone does not pay for something up front does NOT mean it is any less important to send. I do not appreciate you saying it was a replacement when you know full well it was not.
And here is the message I sent privately.
I have messaged you on this more than once. No, I may not have paid for the item but that is not to say it was not wanted. I have tried to get in touch with you several times regarding this. I don’t understand the delay at all. Especially since you have told me it was already posted ages ago.
Anyway, it does not matter. I would like to cancel the order now.
I have only gotten in touch with you on the spinning page because you had not replied to my other messages. That is all
And then, on the public forum she had the audacity to post THIS –
Wow, Empress27 such venom. When you first said loom had not arrived, i said i would post a replacement which i did.. when you place an order and do not pay up front, is there a deadline for items to arrive.? You really have a bee in your bonnet that it did not arrive within a week. I am amazed at the fuss over an £8 loom
Again, more lies. Here is my reply.
Empress27 – Please send me the msg that you said would post a replacement. Yes, I think that a month is a ridiculous amount of time to wait for a product. No, I was annoyed it did not arrive within THREE weeks. I’m done with this. Please do NOT contact me again.
The admin then very kindly blocked her. I hope she continues to stay blocked. They deleted all the comments for me, but then another started this morning from one of her friends. About not understanding why people moan about not recieving an order if they had not posted out any money. About how I have shot myself in the foot as she was a fantastic seller. About how I was complaining when it was ‘courier issues.’ Uh NO!
I am also a bit unsure why anyone would be grumbling about the looms not being posted or arriving as soon as they would like because payment is not expected or asked for until they HAVE arrived. Due to the grumbles *********** has now been taken off this site which is grossly unfair and the few that have moaned have now shot themselves in the foot. **** provided the spinners in this country with a great many fleeces and equipment to which they will no longer have access to through this great site. You can however still go through ******************* for anything you wish to buy from here and I shall continue to recommend her products because the quality outstrips any delivery delays caused by couriers etc
I then get a comment saying that the buyer should have the grace to wait since the seller waits for the money. Sorry, no. My reply –
This buyer had the grace to wait three weeks. Three weeks is the time I wait for something being posted from another country. It was not courier issues. At the end of the day, I had trouble with this and so did a few others. We shouldn’t be moaned at or complained about by others. We tried to deal with it our way and look what happened. Nasty comments from this woman who made up stories about me and so called messages that were never sent. That is why I am annoyed with her. Not just because of the waiting time.
I then got the comment. ‘ Just not talking to some people I guess.’ I deleted the entire post because it was getting out of hand and I was sick of it. I visit this friends page and see a HUGE post where loads of them are moaning and bitching about ME and how unfair I was, and how sad I was that I had nothing better to do. How I was a troll, and how I was miss grumpy. How I was a madam who couldnt wait a week for a loom. How rude MY comments were. I did not turn to insults and patronising comments. How I didn’t even say thank you! Can you point out where I was rude in my comments, please? I just cannot see it.
And this next comment, seriously?? YOU started this on that post!
********** (Seller) I have just seen another post with someone else getting a hammering, to me if you have an issue pm someone dont do it public. They only do it in public so they can try to get others to back them. Trolls are vile.
Now I can understand sticking up for your friends, but do you really have to get involved and spread it all over the internet? I was just going to completely leave it, but this is not good enough. They should be grateful I have not spread this womans name and her business over FB with the digusting way I have been treated, not only by her but by her friends too. I think it was a nice way to not take money until you have the item, but how long do you have to wait for it? Especially since you were told it had been posted TWICE! And what sort of a seller then blames YOU for HER mistakes? To me, a seller that makes up lies, has remarks like that on a public forum (such as when you place an order and do not pay up front, is there a deadline for items to arrive.?) I think you should keep well, WELL away!
I could have said so many more things on that FB page, but I DIDN’T. I could have said so many things on my FB for her and her friends to see, but I DIDN’T. And yet, I’m the one in the wrong trying to destroy someones business.
It’s a funny sort of a business that’s all I can say. And not one I will EVER return to again, that’s for sure.
And the funny thing? The loom is not actually that bad. It’s solid, but a bit chipped in places, but that doesn’t bother me. It absolutely does what its supposed to do, and that’s good. I enjoy using it. And I will now go on and make my own. I’m going to paint over this one which will make it easier to look at so I don’t remember this awful transaction. I’m only going to be using handspun wool for this one. I’m thinking of getting my white fleece out and dyeing it all with kool-aid to make a woven blanket. It looks a bit tartany, which is nice. I am in Scotland after all! Edited to add – First base coat added! I’m going to paint it with a cup of tea 🙂 Anyway, I’d better go right now, got lots of books still to mark :p Have a great night. xXx Love Kais xXx